mid 30s

I am soon approaching 34. The mid 30s!

When you get to this age this is what you realize about relationships;

a) People get over the ‘getting married’ part and have decided to start popping out babies instead.

b) Those that got married early and have realized it was the wrong thing are now single and horny. of course those that have never been married and are single are even horny-er!

c) Those that had babies early and have realized that they were trying hard to stay and make it work with their partner for the child’s sake are now separating.

d) Those that are happily living with their partners are starting to feel the pressure of either marriage or babies.

e) There are the rare couples that are married with children going about a normal everyday family life.

Atleast by your mid 30s your relationships should start to make sense. After all we have been doing this for a while but there are those like myself that even though are just happily married you want to hold on to that young, easy going, naive, energetic sort of relationship. Dont get me wrong I do feel that we have this but I feel that people like to burst my bubble by pointing out that I am getting old and should start a family, etc. Argh!

I guess there will always be people that think they know better then you or that they think they KNOW you better then yourself! I am in my mid 30s ppl – f&*k off!!

Miss is now Mrs

Miss Gossiplounge is now Mrs EjectBMX.
We eloped in NYC on October 22nd.

exciting

there are a couple of things invading my mind right now, all good, and one by one i’ve been able to scratch most of them from the list.

first; jimmy finally got his visa sorted! it ONLY took 8 friggin months!

second; we finally signed contracts for the terrace!! i cant believe in around 10 months we’ll be home owners!

third; we are going overseas soon! yay!! i cant wait!! we are going to san francisco, new york city, and el paso to visit the family of course.

on a completely different note. how friggin cute is this bag! luv it!

swine flu

last week more then half of the office was off sick with the flu. which meant that i had to pretty much cover the floor.

i started to feel sick at the end of last week but felt like i couldn’t afford to be sick so i soldiered on.

this week on tuesday the girls thought i looked pale and thought i had a temp. so i was off wed, thu, and fri.

i saw the doctor on thursday and she told me i had the flu. infact she said that 99% of the flu going around is the swine flu so they recommend that you stay home for 7 days because it is very contagious.

geez who can just have a week off. plus most of the office already had it anyway.

i told her that i started to feel bad at the end of last week but i think she didnt believe me. she thought that i was just trying to talk her out of forcing me to have a week off. haha

3 words

Lazy

Everyday when I am having lunch at the local food courts I notice people just tend to get up and leave their rubbish on the table. why is it too much of an effort to pick up after ourselves?

Greed

As soon as the lotto jack pots we all run out and buy tickets. why dont we buy them when its just a million? Isnt that good enough?

Inconsiderate

The other day the road was closed due to road works. I was walking on the side walk when some person in their car abused the worker because they couldnt get through. WhyTF? He was simply doing his work. People are so fucking inconsiderate!!

soon double three

Thanks to facebook I have been reaquainted to old high school classmates. I never kept in touch with any of them, except for a couple, but thanks to social sites such as facebook its unavoidable nowadays. Most are doing what is expected. They are married and have families. Most of them never left town. A few moved to other cities in within the state and a couple went interstate. I left the country.

I dont think I am better then them because of it. Infact if anything I always think what I’ve done, where I am, who I am, is not good enough. I always feel like there is more to this. I want more, but what that more is, I dont know. Are we ever 100% satisfied?

I guess it doesnt matter what we do or where we are as long as we are happy. Maybe in some ways I am jealous of some of my classmates because they seem happy. Of course the question always crosses my mind. What do they think of me? Am I what they expected I would be, and wHat did they expect? Are they a tiny bitsy jealous of me?

Can you tell another birthday is around the corner! I always reflect and think of silly things!!

I guess I am sure of one thing and that is that ‘someone’ makes me happy and I am glad that ‘someone’ is a part of my life!