mid 30s

I am soon approaching 34. The mid 30s!

When you get to this age this is what you realize about relationships;

a) People get over the ‘getting married’ part and have decided to start popping out babies instead.

b) Those that got married early and have realized it was the wrong thing are now single and horny. of course those that have never been married and are single are even horny-er!

c) Those that had babies early and have realized that they were trying hard to stay and make it work with their partner for the child’s sake are now separating.

d) Those that are happily living with their partners are starting to feel the pressure of either marriage or babies.

e) There are the rare couples that are married with children going about a normal everyday family life.

Atleast by your mid 30s your relationships should start to make sense. After all we have been doing this for a while but there are those like myself that even though are just happily married you want to hold on to that young, easy going, naive, energetic sort of relationship. Dont get me wrong I do feel that we have this but I feel that people like to burst my bubble by pointing out that I am getting old and should start a family, etc. Argh!

I guess there will always be people that think they know better then you or that they think they KNOW you better then yourself! I am in my mid 30s ppl – f&*k off!!